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Hey Friend đ Did you know that in the early years of a bamboo plant, there is very little to see above ground? From the surface, it can look like nothing is happening. But the real work is happening underneath. So when growth finally appears, it looks dramatic. People call it sudden. From the inside, it never feels sudden. It feels like the moment the ground finally gives way because it has been prepared to. Do you recognise that feeling? âď¸ Insight Yesterday, one of my students said to me, âYou make it look so easy.â I smiled, because I know what they could not see. When I look back at my own journey, from being the shyest student in the room to teaching doctors how to communicate with confidence, there was nothing overnight about it. There were long stretches where progress was invisible. Showing up again and again. Practising in private. Sitting with the discomfort of not being good yet. From the outside, it might have looked like nothing was happening. From the inside, foundations were being laid. That is the difference between height and depth. If your progress feels slow right now, it may not be a problem to fix. It may be unseen preparation. And if growth comes quickly one day, the real question will not be, âDid this happen fast?â It will be, âWill it hold when life applies pressure?â Depth first. Height follows and only lasts when the roots are strong enough. đ Fun fact Once established, bamboo can grow close to 90cm in a single day under the right conditions. |
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